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Tuesday, February 19, 2013

ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER..???





A Must Read...♥


During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"

The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind
replied the author.

Here's the answer.

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you
fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls,
want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you
may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfilment  Extramarital fulfilment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO....!!! ♥


I found this writing on Facebook and eventually after read it, it was really meaningful out of the words it used to make me think wise enough. To take care of this relationship, love him, take care of him, and accept him for whatever it is, because that is the key of happiness. I am missing you, Mie. But the only thing I can do is pray for you,  hope everything would be good out there for you. 
Just , I Love You. So Much. 

Saturday, February 9, 2013

Mohon

Duhai kasih cuba kau dengarkan
Isi hati penuh kejujuran
Dengan sepenuh keikhlasan
Ku dambakan pengertian
Jangan kau dengar fitnah dunia
Kerna ianya dusta semata
Menghancurkan kesucian
Jalinan kebahagiaan
Sebenarnya aku merasa
Sinar cahaya yang gemilang
Ketika kau beriku harapan
Dan sering aku harapkan
Cinta berlandas keimanan
Dan kasih suci kita kan diberkati
Ku cuba sedaya
Agar dirahmati perhubungan yang telah terbina
Kerna pasti aku
Yang akan merasa pedihnya kehilangan insan sepertimu
'Kasih kuharapkan cinta kita kan terus kekal hingga ke syurga'
Tuhan berikanlah
Ketabahan hatiku untuk membina impian kasihku
Bersama mengharapkan
Ketulusan cinta ini hingga terbina mahligai bahgia

somehow lirik lagu ni bermakna bg aku. dah tu je. k bai. 

Saturday, February 2, 2013

AllahummaYassir

Akhirnya, 
aku sudah smpai ke satu tahap perhubungan yg lebih jauh, 
sungguh, aku sendiri tak sangka. 
sudah hampir ke destinasi mungkin, entah.
tapi aku masih taktahu.
siapa yg harus aku pentingkan sebenarnya?
belah mana? siapa?
mcm mana dgn hati aku? hati kami?
pihak mana yg aku kena puaskan?
atau aku kena mengalah utk semua org menang?
makin lama, bkn masalah kami lg. semua dah ikut campur.
halangan seterusnya, 10x lebih mencabar dari semua
yg pernah aku lalui dulu.
niat yg baik, tak semestinya semua org setuju.
sbb masing2 punya pandangan sendiri.
dan aku, dia, masih terikat dgn mcm2.
kami bukan org gelandangan takpunya asal usul.
punya mcm2 yg perlu di habiskan dulu.
tapi semacam aneh aku rasa, semacam berat.
ini juga sebahagian dr perjuangan aku.
yg aku perjuangkn selama ni.
jadi, tolong jgn lemah sgt. wahai hati sendiri.
tapi, kalau di duga kali ini, sungguh,
lutut aku mungkin lemah, longlai
mungkin lebih layu dari sayur.

AllahumaYassir,WaLaTua'assir.